MY cheating wife is like a female Matt Hancock.

Last month I caught her on our security camera kissing our next-door neighbour.

I’d been hearing noises in the night sometimes and was worried burglars might be sizing up our property.

But when I checked the footage from the camera on the side of our house, I discovered something worse.

Seeing my wife in my neighbour’s arms felt like someone had stabbed me through the heart.

When I calmed down, I confronted my wife. But rather than apologising for what had happened and begging me to forgive her — which is what I expected — she told me she is in love with the neighbour and wants to leave me.


She said she was drunk the night I caught her cheating but admitted that was not the first time they had been together.

It turns out this has been going on for months. He’s married too and I thought we were all good friends.

She’s blamed me for the affair, saying I’m not the man she married and that I don’t make her feel attractive or loved any more. I am so confused. Before this, I believed our relationship was happy.

We’ve been married for seven years, together for ten. I’m 34 and she’s 33. I still love her and don’t know what to do. His wife is also devastated, and they have two young children together.

I feel lost and can’t eat or sleep. Since it happened I’ve lost more than a stone in weight.

I think my heart has shattered and I don’t know how I can carry on. I’m too humiliated to talk to anyone.
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