出了事儿之后，抱着小男孩哭，的确很惨。
不过这位父亲说的话，有点意思，说的原话：
"球球，你别吓唬我啊"，这句话是下意识or
无意识的话，大家可以琢磨一下，父子之间，
这话让责任方变成了小男孩，让小男孩不要
吓唬他。
    
    
小男孩一脑门子血呢，还得背负起吓唬老爹  
的责任。
    
    
由此可见，孩子父亲可能是个甩锅大王，条
件反射的甩锅，儿子出事儿了，先往儿子身
上甩锅。这可能是一种常见的心理防御机制，
本质上和甩锅没差。
  
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unconsciousness is the ultimate mechanism of self-protection

【 在 TimeAndRiver 的大作中提到: 】
: here is the beliefs
: you trust it
: you believe it
: ...................
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Let us be more specific, it is "complex", which is more accurate.

A complex is a structure in the unconscious that is objectified as an underlying theme—like a power or a status—by grouping clusters of emotions, memories, perceptions and wishes in response to a threat to the stability of the self.

The father's spontaneious response, essentially is a 'complex' in my opinion.


【 在 TimeAndRiver 的大作中提到: 】
: then what is unconsciousness?
: unconsciousness is a mind action
: we should say
: ...................
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