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: We were both on the cusp of forty, ten years deep into a marriage that had  
: once promised forever. Our eight-year-old son was a constant reminder of the  
: life we'd built together, a life that now felt like a distant memory.
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: She'd begun as a whirlwind of affection, showering me with love notes and  
: gifts. But as the initial spark faded, so too did her tenderness. I now  
: suspect her early displays of love were merely a calculated performance, a  
: carefully crafted act to ensnare my heart.
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: Once the wedding bells had chimed, her true nature emerged. A cruel,  
: insidious transformation took hold. She'd belittle me, openly flirt with  
: other men, and constantly compare me to more successful acquaintances. Every  
: word was a dagger to my self-esteem, particularly when it came to our  
: intimate life.
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: Over time, I'd retreated into a shell of self-doubt. The desire for physical  
: intimacy had withered, replaced by a gnawing fear of failure. When we did  
: share a bed, it was often at her insistence, and even then, I'd falter,  
: haunted by her critical gaze.
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: Recently, a devastating truth was laid bare: she'd been betraying me with a  
: coworker. When confronted, she denied it at first, then brazenly blamed me  
: for her infidelity, claiming I hadn't given her the attention she craved.
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: Jealousy and distrust now consumed me. Any attempt to discuss our shattered  
: relationship was met with stonewalling. The future, once filled with hope,  
: now seemed bleak and uncertain.
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FROM 114.246.238.*

以为是歪果仁，哈哈哈
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FROM 183.173.92.*

It is absolutely not your fault. Infidelity is a serious betrayal in a relationship, and her actions of having an affair and then trying to shift the blame onto you are completely unjust.
In the beginning of your relationship, she showed affection in certain ways, but then changed and started demeaning you, flirting with others, and constantly comparing you unfavorably. Her behavior was already causing damage to your self-esteem and your relationship long before the affair came to light.
She should take responsibility for her own choices to be unfaithful instead of suggesting that it's because you didn't give her enough attention. A healthy relationship involves communication and working through issues together, but she's shutting you down when you try to talk, which is also an unhelpful way to handle things.
You have every right to feel jealous and betrayed by what she's done, and it's important that she acknowledges her wrongdoing and takes steps to rebuild trust if the relationship is to have any chance of being repaired. But don't for a second think that her affair is on you; it's a result of her own decisions and lack of respect for your marriage.
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FROM 116.10.197.*

tai changle，yao jianyao！！
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FROM 117.14.145.*

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【 在 ximei 的大作中提到: 】
: We’re both approaching 40 and have been married for ten years. We have a son aged eight.
: At the start of our relationship, she was loving and generous, always writing me little love notes, buying me gifts and making me feel special.
: But I think that was just an act to get me to fall in love with her.
: ...................
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