YEARS of lies and mistrust are beginning to make my marriage unravel.
I’m now convinced my husband is having an affair with a woman at work - but he denies it. I feel like I’ve had enough, and there’s no way back for us.
I’m 38 and my husband is 40. We’ve been married for 10 years and have one child.
Our relationship hasn’t been good for almost a decade. We do nothing but argue, and we don’t have bedthings unless I initiate it.
Over the past year, things have really deteriorated. My husband is distant, moody, and won’t talk about anything.
He isn’t depressed because he’s fine at work or with his friends. So I know the problem is me - but he says our marriage is fine.
He’s always had a roving eye and flirts with other women, even in front of me. Something he always denies.
I’m pretty sure he had an affair in the past, but I never found the proof.
Now, his distance and the fact he’s always working late for no good reason makes me think he’s sleeping with a woman at work.
He told me not to be so ridiculous. He can’t see the fact he won’t talk to me or tell me anything about what he’s been up to makes me paranoid.
The truth is, I’m almost past caring. We have no relationship to speak of, and I’m tired of trying to make it work.
Should I ask for a divorce and leave him?
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