After reading your words, I can't help but strongly agree with you. However, I also wonder if you might be a bit too sensitive about this. Whether you take the initiative or she does, the most important thing is that everyone is happy and satisfied in the end. So, what exactly are you concerned about? Personally, I quite enjoy the feeling of my wife being on top. A doctor friend once said to me that when I can't satisfy her, I should let someone else do it. Physical needs are a basic necessity, and it's not a matter of giving to others only when you want to, and expecting them to hold back when you don't.
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