THE woman next door is using me for sex.

It’s making me miserable because she has made it clear she isn’t interested in me, while I have developed real feelings for her.

I’m a single guy, aged 40, and live alone. She’s 45 and divorced. She’s my type — a petite brunette — but we didn’t speak until last winter, after she had lived there for six months.

She came over to borrow an electric heater, as her boiler had packed up. I invited her in for a cuppa and asked if she was OK.

To my surprise, she opened up to me about her bad marriage, her ex and the fact he had cheated on her.

She even asked my advice about whether she should agree to meet him.


After that, she’d confide in me on a regular basis about all her personal issues. I’ve become her free advice service.

As I’m an accountant, I also helped her with her taxes. I thought we were getting close although if I’m honest, she never asked me much about myself.

When I asked her if she’d be my girlfriend, she bluntly said she was sorry but she didn’t find me attractive sexually.

So I was very surprised last week when she told me she was horny and asked me to pleasure her.

We were sitting there on the sofa at the time.

I was very happy to oblige — and more — although she wouldn’t kiss me and said no to full intercourse.

This has now happened three times. In the heat of the moment, she acts like we’re together.

But as soon as she has an orgasm, she switches back to being my neighbour.

I’m confused and feel horrible. I know I’m being used but I can’t help myself. It’s like I’m under her spell. How do I stop her taking advantage of me?
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