IT’S been so long since my husband and I had sex that I feel like just the lodger.
  
I’m 38 and he’s 45. When we first got together we had a good love life, but we haven’t been intimate for four years. He’s just not interested.
  
I have tried to speak to him about how I feel but all he says is: “Not this again.”
  
I’ve tried sexy underwear and tight dresses, dyeing my hair – anything to make him notice me and find me attractive.
  
Nothing works. I could walk around naked and he wouldn’t be aroused.
  
I’ve lost all my confidence and feel so ugly.
  
Should I leave him? I just want to feel like a woman again.
  
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