不谢

We're both nearing 40 and have been married for a decade. Our son is eight
years old.

At the beginning of our relationship, she was incredibly loving and
thoughtful. She'd write me sweet notes, buy me gifts, and always made me feel
special.

But I now believe that was just a facade to win my heart.

Once we tied the knot, her demeanor changed completely. She started making me
feel insecure and inadequate.

She'd openly flirt with other men, belittle me, and compare me unfavorably to
her friends' husbands.

Her constant criticism eroded my self-esteem, particularly when it came to
intimacy.

Over the past few years, I've felt so inferior that I've withdrawn from our
physical relationship.

When we do have sex—initially at her insistence—I often struggle to
perform. Afterward, she makes me feel like a failure.

Recently, I discovered that she's been having an affair with a coworker. When
I confronted her, she denied it at first and then blamed me, saying I wasn't
giving her enough attention.

I'm consumed by jealousy and distrust. Whenever I try to discuss this with
her, she shuts me down.

【 在 ximei 的大作中提到: 】
: We’re both approaching 40 and have been married for ten years. We have a
: son aged eight.
: At the start of our relationship, she was loving and generous, always
: writing me little love notes, buying me gifts and making me feel special.
: But I think that was just an act to get me to fall in love with her.
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