I’ve tried everything to get the spark back, but he isn’t interested. I feel like all I am to him is a cook and cleaner.

We’ve been married for seven years. I’m 42 and he’s 47.

Our bedthings life was fine at the start - normal. But for the past three years, we haven’t had bedthings at all.

If I come on to him, he knocks me back, leaving me feeling humiliated and unattractive.

He just says he isn’t in the mood, or is tired, and makes me feel I’m hassling him.

I’ve bought nice underwear, taken him away for the weekend to a spa, made him romantic dinners. Nothing works and I end up feeling even more rejected than before.

The worst thing is, he won’t show me any affection. If I try to kiss him, he turns his face away and I end up giving him a peck on the cheek like I’m his mum.

I want to feel loved and desired and feel I’m wasting away.
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